Military Dating Ques: How come my boyfriend has not taken me to the navy base he is stationed?

i dated a man from the army. and trust me there are thing they just rather not talk about. its things they probally dont even want to remember! i dont know whether or not he is hiding something but maybe you rather not add you into the place he hates the most. he seems to just want to get though it and get back to all the good things in his life(you).